Though the page is titled "wedding registry," please don't feel that you have to give us a gift. Many people are traveling from quite a distance to be part of our wedding, and it is a gift to us just to have everyone present.
As we have been living together for two years already, we're not exactly trying to "start" a home. Therefore, we encourage people to consider giving a donation to a charitable organization as an alternative to a traditional gift. Likewise, those of you with less money to spend might want to give us the gift of your time, in the form of some service to us or assistance with the wedding planning. Some ideas are listed below.
Donations
Organizations we support:
Jon B. Higgins Memorial Fund, Wesleyan University: Established in honor of Jon Higgins, the first American to gain reknown in South Indian classical music, and who was a disciple of Susan's late Indian music teacher, T. Viswanathan. Donations support the Indian music program at Wesleyan, both by bringing artists to campus for performances and teaching, and by sending students and faculty to India for study. Susan received a grant from this fund to make her first trip to India, and Viswa was very devoted to supporting this fund, so it holds special meaning for her. Contributions may be sent by check, payable to Wesleyan University with Jon Higgins Fund in the memo line, to:
Pamela Tatge, Director
Center for the Arts
Wesleyan University
283 Washington Terrace
Middletown, CT 06459
Gifts
We are registered at the following stores:
REI.com Registry # GR1366082, or search for Tveekrem or Dague
These types of gifts are also welcome:
- Art (particularly when created by the giver)
- Handmade pottery
- Items supporting our hobbies of kayaking, hiking, cross country skiing, gardening
- Gift certificates
Services
We can use help with the following:
- House/garden/catsitting from August 31 - September 15
- Flower picking and arranging the morning of the wedding
- Setting up chairs/tables/decorations the day before and day of the wedding
- Clean up the day after the wedding
- Videography for the ceremony
- Photography for the ceremony and reception
- Sign-making
If you'd like to donate your time for one of more of these tasks, please email Susan at stveekrem@wesleyan.edu.